We're Pregnant!

2021年04月 2日
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Ahhhh, secret's out! Ben and I are ready to start the biggest chapter of our lives. The newest member to our lil fam is arriving this fall. This whole experience has been huge for us and I just wanted to share a slice of what was going through my mind.
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  • Ohhh my goodness. I'm in tears reading all your comments. Thank you thank you thank you for the amount of support. 😭😭😭I was really nervous uploading this video, but I just wanted to be honest and open about it all. I hope it can help anyone who's experiencing something similar. Honestly Ben, Cheeki and I are SO excited to welcome our newest family member in September. 👶🏻

    Jenn ImJenn Im7 天 前
    • Wow. Congratulation. This is amazing. God bless you and your family 😍

      Flavor MazeFlavor Maze2 小时 前
    • Congratulations Jenn😭😭💖

      EmilyEmily21 小时 前
    • I am beyond ecstatic for you both! Everything that you are feeling (good and bad) are COMPLETELY VALID! Please understand that. You and Ben have such a spectacular dynamic; your baby is already so so blessed to be able to share and absorb all of your love, wisdom, experiences, and more. You two will be and already are such beautiful, loving parents. They will be forever surrounded by endless love Max protection, and guidance. You have nothing to fear as god would never give you more than what you can handle. This baby is meant for you two. I love y’all, thank you for sharing this beautiful moment with us all. ❤️

      Rachel MarieRachel Marie天 前
    • I'm so…so touched. thank you for sharing !

      CherubinTheBearCherubinTheBear2 天 前
    • Jenn, I understand your feeling but just be happy and relax...don’t bombard yourself with too much unknown and stress...it’s going to be alright dear. I’m same age with you, having my first time pregnancy same time as you without ready for it. Anyhow let’s looking forward to our September baby ya 🥂

      Mr & Mrs AngMr & Mrs Ang2 天 前
  • You're gonna be an amazing mother!!! 🥰🥰🥰

    Elisabeth AldoraElisabeth Aldora58 分钟 前
  • i’m sobbing here like crazy, congratulation Jenn and Ben 🥰

    90adrijana90adrijana小时 前
  • this was so pure💓🦋🌻 sometimes motherhood or parenthood feels like this big, messy, beautiful thing we have no control of. and we fear that we'll mess up or think that it was a mistake. but when we let go of all control, we realize there was nothing to be afraid of:) seek to be ur child's friend and equal..they might not always need u as a parent but they'll always need us as a friend, a best friend😚🌸 place it all in the hands of the Creator❤ He made our hearts n knows best how to take care of it:) p.s. you'll make an incredible mum alright! ur kindness n sincerity of character will be a part of ur child🙏🏻 n Ben is gonna be an amazing dad! his patience and humility is gon help raise a healthy family wif u💞 God bless both of yall:))

    cherry colacherry cola2 小时 前
  • Who’s crying 😭😭😭😭😭😭 congrats Jenn you’re gonna be such an amazing mom

    Joanna CheungJoanna Cheung2 小时 前
  • I got goosebumps as you told everyone 😭😭 HOW BEAUTIFUL!!!

    Jennifer TaylorJennifer Taylor3 小时 前
  • Such a beautiful video! Congrats! 👶🏼🎉 I cried through the whole thing 😭❤️

    Sara FeijóoSara Feijóo3 小时 前
  • i didn't expect to cry this hard😭 jenn, i'm happy for you!

    not seonghwanot seonghwa4 小时 前
  • Thank you so much for sharing so much openness and honesty. I was in tears xx

    nj snj s4 小时 前
  • HOW AM I SOO LATE TO THIS arrgghh I'm soooo happy that your baby's going to be my birthday twin aahh SO EXCITED!! Congratulations to both of y'll!!!

    YunaYuna5 小时 前
  • Sobbing almost a whole vid. You are gonna be a good mom Jen! Sending you virtual hugs and kisses. :)

    Nutta R.Nutta R.7 小时 前
  • I've always been a fan of yours Jenn. But you completely blew me away with this. It was so much better than I thought it was going to be. Thank you for your authenticity and willingness to be vulnerable like this. It's very comforting to see you just be human. Wishing you a healthy pregnancy, a smooth birth, and the happiest of lives with your new family. God bless!

    Sad SaharaSad Sahara7 小时 前
  • A virgo mommy and virgo baby awhh 🥺

    wtv tf that meanswtv tf that means7 小时 前
  • I've watched you since day 1 when you were still clothesencounters with Sarah and its been a journey with you. I'm so proud of you and where you are in life. You are going to be an amazing mother

    littledreamrlittledreamr7 小时 前
  • English male + Asian American female = Elliot Rodger

    DavonDavon8 小时 前
  • ABSOLUTELY SOBBING. This was the most beautiful video I have EVER seen.......

    Tabitha DestinyTabitha Destiny8 小时 前
  • Jesus. Best pregnancy video ever. Makes me wish I was married! 😂😭

    masterhidemasterhide9 小时 前
  • Omg not be crying when he hugged you 😭😭😭😭😭

    masterhidemasterhide9 小时 前
  • Awe! So normal to be scared! ❤ being aware and afraid of being a bad mother will make you a good one! Self awareness is such a big deal. And at least you have a loving family & beautiful marriage and income to back it all up. This baby has it made! Lol congrats you two!

    masterhidemasterhide9 小时 前
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    zhongcai jiangzhongcai jiang10 小时 前
  • soo excited for you jenn! been following you since ur college makeup video and here we are now, little jenn is coming! Congratulations for you both!! ✨🤍

    lilfavlilfav10 小时 前
  • Jen, I’ve grown up with you ever since you would frequent the Savers I would go to as an early teenager. I feel you like a friend. Like a big sister. I wish all the happiness and strength and wisdom you are already basking in. Enjoy every moment of it. This is huge. You’re going to be an amazing momma 🤍

    wholly moleywholly moley10 小时 前
  • well this video made me ugly cry

    Sabrina ZSabrina Z11 小时 前
  • AWW the baby is gonna be a virgo just like her mama 🥺

    Tiffany TongTiffany Tong11 小时 前
  • Thank you for posting this. You'll never read this comment, but I feel all the things you were describing in the first half of your video. I never would have expected you to feel like you never wanted kids because you didn't think you'd be a good mother. From what I see on this end, which albeit is probably a small portion of your life, you seem like you'd be a fantastic mother. Hearing your fears, so genuinely and consumingly, it feels like I'm listening to myself. I gives me hope that one day, if it happens, maybe I'll come around too. Congratulations to you and Ben. I hope nothing but the best for you guys on this life changing journey.

    Casey CollinsCasey Collins11 小时 前
  • Where is the white dress from starting at 6.27? She looks absolutely gorgeous in it.

    BooksRulexBooksRulex12 小时 前
  • I'm not crying...you're crying! I've been with you from the start and this new chapter of your life is going to be everything and more. So proud and excited for you and Ben. Sending all the love!

    Cynthia WCynthia W12 小时 前
  • Congratulations Jenn ❤️

    D CD C12 小时 前
  • crying in the club rn

    Joanne TanJoanne Tan12 小时 前
  • I've been a silent viewer since the beginning, it always felt like watching a friend grow up and I'm SOOO HAPPY!! Thank you for sharing Ben and Jenn, you're going to be amazing parents!!

    Cat LorioCat Lorio12 小时 前
  • So raw and beautiful. Congratulations!

    LillJadeLillJade12 小时 前
  • Awww its gonna be a Virgo :D

    aznfangrl612aznfangrl61212 小时 前
  • Thank you for sharing, that was so human and beautiful. What will make you a wonderful mother is not that you will be perfect or not make any mistakes, but your gift of unconditional love will. ❤

    Indigo SkyIndigo Sky12 小时 前
  • actually cried watching this 😭

    SKIMSKIM13 小时 前
  • I'm bawling. Congratulations. Thank you for sharing this portrait of love with us.

    RubyRuby13 小时 前
  • nowhere near that.. I'd like to hope in 10 years from now I'll have the mindset of "if it does happen.. I can make it work."

    yasio boloyasio bolo13 小时 前
  • I literally have just watched this from the UK. I was so shocked by the title and clicked on the video instantly! You officially have me sobbing at 2am- This was so beautiful Jenn, congratulations to you and Ben 💞

    luna Cxluna Cx13 小时 前
    • As a mom of two I can tell you I felt all these fears and still do. Thank you for your honesty Jenn. I hope everyone who needs to see this finds it

      yasio boloyasio bolo13 小时 前
  • Sending love

    karenesskareness13 小时 前
  • You're going to be the BEST mom! Your child will love you because you love it

    Rachel SingRachel Sing14 小时 前
  • Sobbing

    h000993h00099315 小时 前
  • now why am i crying watching this😭 anyways i am truly so happy for you and im glad you're in a much better place rn, wishing you all the best🥺💕

    cherry blossomcherry blossom16 小时 前
  • Omgness can’t believe this made me tear up ! Ur gonna be ok love you!!

    Der XiongDer Xiong16 小时 前
  • This was amazing. Lately, majority of influencers these days only show very happy, very positive, very perfect situations and it’s so refreshing to see some real, raw, unexpected, chaotic emotions because most people want to see reality and not picture perfect moments. Thank you Jenn. Congratulations!

    Veronika ZVeronika Z16 小时 前
  • This hit so close to home. Im crying with you

    DanielaDaniela16 小时 前
  • I’m sobbing!! So much love in one video I’m dying!!! 😭 Such a beautiful video of your probably not uncommon experience!! Thank you so much for sharing your story!! I know quite a number of girls who are in the “no kids” camp, but I love how you were open to changing your mind when this unexpected turn of events happened!! (Honest question though- were you really expecting to not have ever been able to get pregnant simply because of pcos?? Perhaps in denial of it? I love so much that you evolved into the role of being the best mother you could possibly be for your child though 😭😭😭 your son will love you SO much- you will be their entire world! And they will be yours~ 💖 so happy and excited for you, Jen!! YOU AND BEN ARE GOING TO BE SUCH INCREDIBLE PARENTS!!!)

    amanalatoramanalator17 小时 前
  • I ugly cried😭😭😭 The most honest and raw pregnancy video♥️

  • I've never cried so hard from a youtube video... Thank you for being so vulnerable and real with us. You practically raised me through your videos, it was so validating having a female korean creator to look up to. You're gonna be an amazing mother and I'm so happy for you and Ben!!!

    EmilyEmily17 小时 前
  • I watched this while nursing my son sobbing my eyes out. So honest, so well done, so happy for y’all

    NatAttack1987NatAttack198718 小时 前
  • oh Jenn I dont know if you´re reading this but you are so not alone. This is so real for many of us. Not everyone were born ready to be a mother! I will soon have a 1 year old toddler and I still cant believe that Im a mother. Its very easy to feel all the responsibilities and burdens that society and we ourself put on us as a mother. But remember to give yourself grace! Your child will love you either way. And we will be right here with you on this wonderful journey.

    Maiken DaoMaiken Dao18 小时 前
  • literally sobbed within the first 25 seconds😭😭😭😭😭

    Samina AaliyahSamina Aaliyah18 小时 前
  • This video is so beautiful!! ❤

    Nail-ItNailArtNail-ItNailArt19 小时 前
  • You are a good person, so you will be a good mother. You will see. 🙂

    Dhalia DreamDhalia Dream19 小时 前
  • As a mom of two I can tell you I felt all these fears and still do. Thank you for your honesty Jenn. I hope everyone who needs to see this finds it

    Mirian SalazarMirian Salazar19 小时 前
  • I’m just a couple of weeks behind you 🥰 congrats and best of luck on the rest of your journey!

    alejanjaaalejanjaa19 小时 前
  • This video was so real, thank you for sharing!

    Caroline AbelCaroline Abel19 小时 前
  • 😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️

    SayaSaya20 小时 前
  • I literally trying to hold my tears. This is just so beautiful😍❤Even though we are a complete strangers, I felt so happy for both of you. Congratulations 🎉💕

    Jeong HanJeong Han20 小时 前
  • I absolutely love this video. It's one of the most beautiful videos I've seen on youtube, period. Makes me feel a little less scared to pregnant *hopefully soon*. :)

    Camila ReisCamila Reis21 小时 前
  • Oh my congrats to you both! I’ve no doubt you’ll be a kind mother Jenn, you’re such a positive spirit💕

    Thandisile CThandisile C21 小时 前
  • I can not stop crying, it’s been so many years and i have seen you through so many steps. Congrats on your little Virgo/libra!

    Griffie ClarkGriffie Clark21 小时 前
  • This video is so much better than I thought it would be - I thought it’d be the typical WE ARE SO HAPPY AND HAVE NO HARDSHIPS IN LIFE kind of influencer video and this was so much more and I really appreciate the realness. Thank you for sharing Jenn and best wishes for a smooth pregnancy!

    IncompetentISUIncompetentISU21 小时 前
  • Congrats!!! This was the most beautiful and heartfelt video I have ever seen. You brought me to tears reliving the fears I had as well. I’m so happy you’ve embraced this new chapter in your life. Looking forward to seeing more updates and I may not know you personally, but I wholeheartedly believe that you’re going to be an amazing mother. ♥️ Thank you for sharing such a vulnerable moment in your life with us.

    Masu beeMasu bee21 小时 前
  • When you said “tiny gummy bear” I think it when I just was like 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 god okay I’m crying

    V I R G I N I A R A I N EV I R G I N I A R A I N E21 小时 前
  • Who's cutting onions here ????

    Ratna TamangRatna Tamang21 小时 前
  • This is beautiful and so real. You made me cry and I'm not a Cryer. Sending my love

    plum peachplum peach21 小时 前
  • This is the most inspiring and the most beautiful pregnancy video I've ever seen! good luck, and you'll be amazing parents❤️

    Hermione GrangerHermione Granger22 小时 前
  • Ohh girl... I randomly cane across your videos of lessons learned in your twenties... Then clicked on this one... Am crying hatd and it's justed 0.59 mins... I don't know i... Am just. Well i know no one will read this but really i have just been diagnosed with pcos... Thinking about life decisions made and all. And deep down i want a family with a baby or more. I don't even have a boyfriend and am already 28. I just feel sooooo soo sad for myself 😢😭

    Dou nDou n22 小时 前
  • This video is just so genuine and real .

    PJ pjPJ pj22 小时 前
  • I know this is weird butt lml I've been waiting for her to say this since high school days ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ soo happy for uuuu❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    Rosie AceRosie Ace22 小时 前
  • Congrat!!!!!!!!! My sis's little baby is coming out in Sept 2021 too!!! Bless you all :)))

    lokshanlokshan23 小时 前
  • Literally this is most beautiful video I’ve ever seen

    Lina YabutaLina Yabuta23 小时 前
  • So touching and congratulations 👏🏻

    Venus SoVenus So23 小时 前
  • I cried so much omg I grew up watching jenn starting from clothesencounters and the fact that she's having a baby makes me so happy

    Celine GreyCeline Grey23 小时 前
  • 와....진짜 너무너무너무 축하드려요 ....눈물이 났어요 ... 보는데,,, 가장 솔직한 감정을 잘 담으신 것 같고,, 어무니랑 통화할때 어무니 목소리 너무 정겨우셔요~~ 좋은 엄마 좋은 Jenn Im되실 거라고 생각합니다!!!

    냉동인간냉동인간23 小时 前
  • Ur bf didn’t pregnant btw

    Nanii :bNanii :b23 小时 前
    • First, that's her husband. Second, it's their story and her channel. If she wants to say "we're" (which valid as he's the reason why she is pregnant), respect their wishes.

      jess_a_yojess_a_yo23 小时 前
  • cried when he hug u >

    金魚腦Goldfish Brain金魚腦Goldfish Brain23 小时 前
  • Congratulations to both of you! I've only recently started watching your videos, but I already love your humble, yet confident energy. I am just going around your channel, watching some videos, and I just realized that you learned about your pregnancy on the same day Ben proposed to you some years back. That is a nice coincidence :) Anyways, wish you both all the best (whatever it might be for you). Greetings from Copenhagen, Denmark.

    Nastia KarpovaNastia Karpova天 前
  • 너무너무너무 축하드려요!!! 영상 보다 같이 울었네요 ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ 이렇게 감정을 공유해줘서 고마워요:) 늘 행복하길 기도해요.

    밀크캣milkcat밀크캣milkcat天 前
  • Congratulations Jenn! I’m beyond happy for you, Ben and your family! I’m crying watching this. Everything you felt are real emotions. Thank you for sharing your beautiful journey and being so vulnerable. You are going to be an amazing mother 💗💗💗

    phuatashiexiongphuatashiexiong天 前
  • Thank you for sharing this Jenn :)

    InnasafaInnasafa天 前

    annhien nguyenannhien nguyen天 前
  • this was so wholesome can't wait to see them!!

    fitria shanumfitria shanum天 前
  • I'm sobbing 😭😭😭😭🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

    Cindy EjioforCindy Ejiofor天 前
  • You have 9 month to prepare, don't be afraid, You're going be the best.

    Анна ПанаитАнна Панаит天 前
  • I love the way u showed your soul honestly. I don't know how am I if I am u. 💞 congratulations mother

    Nguyễn Thị Phương ThảoNguyễn Thị Phương Thảo天 前
  • I think no one would 100% sure can be a good mother or not. Life is always unexpected. Growing to be a good mother with children is good also.

    listen to heart 08listen to heart 08天 前
  • Omg I am tearing 😭

    anchovy44anchovy44天 前
  • Worrying about being a good mother is the first sign of becoming a great mother.

    Rachel ChapmanRachel Chapman天 前
  • I am so Happy 😊for you. And your mom is right. When having babies early in life your able to grow and do more along with them. You are very fortunate you've got your life pretty much all together and a baby was all that was missing. Congratulations. Don't ever feel guilty for feeling "wrong" about your pregnancy. It's actually more common than you think, just not talked about. I pray you have a healthy and easy pregnancy 🙏 and remember that we all love you. The baby will love you for being their mom, your biggest job is loving and protecting. ❤

    Mitzy RodriguezMitzy Rodriguez天 前
  • Hi Jenn! It's been a few days so I'm not even sure if you'll see my comment but I wanted to write it anyway. From the moment I clicked on your channel the thought just came to be that you would make an amazing mother. The fact that you are/were afraid of it so much only proves this. Yes, it isn't always that fairytale image and it's not always going to be easy. And it is so important for you to acknowledge that. Many people don't even realize it after their baby is born. I understand all your drawls and initial fear but I want to repeat myself before finishing this comment. You are going to be an amazing mother -without a doubt-. And your baby will be so lucky to have such loving parents who are also immensely supportive of each other which is really, really rare. And at the end of the day, it is going to be so worth it. Sending my love to you and Ben, from Istanbul

    mdturkermdturker天 前
  • I dont remember asking

    CatundertailCatundertail天 前
  • OMG!!! THIS IS SO BEAUTIFUL!! Sorry, I'm late, I've been busy with my mid-term lately, but so happy to know this news!! Btw, yeah pregnancy can be scary a lot of times, but the thing is you just need to relax and just enjoy the moment. Focus on the present and everything's gonna be okay! ❤❤

    Meidyanti NurulMeidyanti Nurul天 前
  • This was so emotional! So happy for them 🤍

    Leann DieuLeann Dieu天 前
  • We got pregnant = we dented the car

    Ahad HasaniAhad Hasani天 前
  • this made me cry so much as I had just the same thoughts in the beginning. Now my son is 10 months old :)

    julia wjulia w天 前
  • i m crying rn.

    Merve ŞanlıMerve Şanlı天 前
  • This is like the best news this I have heard this week.you're such an amazing person you work so hard to be a better person daily. This new chapter is the perfect step for you and Ben you guys are ready and you have a whole village supporting you. Congratulations Jenn Im sending love from nairobi - Kenya 💖

    Niyitegeka ArianeNiyitegeka Ariane天 前
  • omg congratsssszzzz love this

    Life with AudreyLife with Audrey天 前
  • So beautiful and pure, honest video. I got really emotional ❤ I admire you and Ben so much, your love for each other and your hunger for life! You are an inspiration on how I want my life to be. Congratulations on your new little family member 💙💜

    Lea Marie ChristiansenLea Marie Christiansen天 前
  • I’ve been bawling obscenely through this entire video. I’m so happy for you Jenn and Ben. And when I saw September at the end I lost it. The world needs more Virgos!

    TVTV天 前